Major Man : Malcolm Harris

We are each born with a gift. Some call it talent, while others refer to it as our individual purpose in life. But whichever way you choose to see it, the only thing that stands between nurturing that gift into fulfillment is the fear we all have of our own greatness. It takes a major man to turn fear on its head and allow all of his talent and purpose to take him further than he could ever dream.

Major Man of the week Malcolm Harris knows all about taking a gift and constructing an empire. His eye for detail and design have birthed a clothing line of womenswear - Mal Sirrah - so passionate and expressive that its received widespread acclaim, both on and off the runway. And it doesn't just stop with fashion. He's currently expanding to design commercial interiors around Manhattan as well. Listen and learn as the man himself shares some of the secrets to his success right now, only on Essentially Major.

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Name: Malcolm Harris (aka Mal Sirrah)

Age: Old enough to know better and to show others the way

Occupation: Social Activist/Designer

Background: I was born in Montego Bay, Jamaica and raised in Coral Gables, Florida by hardworking and loving parents. I received my Master’s Degree in English Literature from New York University before attending F.I.T. where I graduated with a degree in Fashion Design. Coming from a family which put education and community service above all else, it was much more important to me to lay a solid educational foundation for myself before heading into my passion of fashion design.

How would you describe your personal style? My personal style at the moment would perhaps be considered “Gothic Urban Warrior”… LOL… I believe that one’s personal style should always find itself evolving and morphing. Every day I wake up I carefully “curate” an ensemble to express to the world exactly how I am feeling. As a person that is somewhat shy, my sense of style has erased a great deal of the idle chatter one might otherwise have to deal within a landmine like New York City.

Do you have a favorite Designer? If so, what is a must have? My favorite designer is and will always be, Yves Saint Laurent. Therefore, any vintage piece I can get my hands on designed by Monsieur YSL himself is a must have item. For me, the holy grail of YSL would be a chocolate velvet tuxedo jacket.

Who/What is your biggest influence in life? Influences for me change all the time. At the moment, my hugest influence I would say is the style icon - Daphne Guinness. Daphne is a dear friend and has taught me a great deal regarding embracing one’s dark side under the condition your spirit is filled with light. I don’t know of any other way to convey my influences outside of “purpose, passion and contribution”… Therefore I would have to say the biggest influence in my life has been the comfort of knowing I have done all the “real work” to ensure my purpose, passion and contribution to the legacy of my people will not be forgotten.

What has been your biggest obstacle in life that you've overcome? The biggest obstacle I have been forced to overcome is my ego. I think ego is the biggest killer of creativity and mobility. However, I can proudly report that my ego has been put in its proper place and only comes out to play once the real work has been done.

Are you currently in a relationship? Are you more comfortable with someone or by yourself? My partner, Tyson Perez (Editor-In-Chief of UNVOGUE Magazine), have been together for almost seven years and our relationship is our pride joy. We have learned over the years to make our friendship a priority and to keep our relationship absolutely sacred.

What is your biggest turn-off? My biggest turn-off is a negative disposition.

What is your biggest turn-on? My biggest turn-on is courage. I am surrounded by courageous and brilliant individuals.

What will you be doing in 2009? 2009 has already been a terrific year so far! I have executive produced and directed a music video for a huge Saudi female artist (Waed – Bhahabbek Giddan – I Love You So Much). I have designed a five-star restaurant on the Upper East Side of Manhattan and have been commissioned to design a hotel by the same firm. I have a limited edition dress collection being released in the near future and then I plan to take a trip to the moon. But seriously, I have more projects and goals ahead then this interview would allow me to explain. However, if readers really want to know, they will join me on FaceBook where I have joined the world in strategically documenting my every waken moment. Once again, sad but true.

What do you hate? The word HATE!!!

What do you love? I love the potential of man and womankind.

What’s your favorite curse word? MOTHERFUCKER!!! I rarely curse, but when I do this word is a quick fix. Followed by meditation and chanting of course.

What’s your favorite food? Sushi, sushi, sushi… And if the sushi is prepared at Nobu, I’m in heaven.

What makes you a major man? I hope what makes me a major man is the same thing that makes me a major son, friend, lover, social activist or designer… And that is living my life by one golden rule: “To leave the world a better place than I found it.” My life is as simple and “major” as that.

Follow Malcolm on Facebook or visit his website at www.malsirrah.com

Rahbi Takes The Stage

Major Man Alumnus Rahbi Live with Janelle Monae

April 3rd at the
Rialto Theater - Atlanta, GA

Major Man : Ben Patrick Johnson

Some men have good looks while others are blessed with charm and wit. Then there are those that are all brains and some that are packed full with a sense of humor instead. But leave it to a major man to have all of those sought after qualities wrapped up into one dynamic personality.

Such is the case for our Major Man of the Week, Ben Patrick Johnson. Author, Activist, Actor, Model, and Philanthropist, Ben has found a way to take all of his passions and turn them each into successful business endeavors. And it only takes one conversation with him to understand that its more about effecting change than stock piling money. Whether he's organizing people to vote against Prop. 8 in California or speaking out against human injustice on his web cast Life on the Left Coast, you always know that he truly puts his heart into everything he touches. See for yourself as we sat down with the man of the week right here, only on Essentially Major.

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Name: Ben Patrick Johnson

Age: 39

Occupation: Actor/Author/Activist

Background: I grew up in St. Paul, Minnesota. I’m the youngest child in a family of missionary schoolteachers. I grew up poor, frozen, and sometimes hungry, but there was always a roof over my head and I was well-fed with music and knowledge and there always seemed to be just enough money for us to take rambling summer trips across America.

How would you describe your personal style? I’d describe my style as global/eccentric. I try to think green and make choices that reflect a responsibility to my environment and community. But then I go and do things like bring home six pet tortoises or build a small TV studio in my guest bedroom. As far as dress and flash, I’ve gotten a lot less flashy in recent years. My Range Rover and 6 Series are gone. Turns out a Prius works just as well!

Do you have a favorite designer? I’m fine with grubby sweats. I just ask that things match and make my butt look great.

What is your “go-to” item the one thing you cannot live without? My MacBook Air. I don’t do well without internet access these days.

Who is your biggest influence in life? I am hugely appreciative of the example, set for me by my parents, of living life both humbly and ‘out loud’ at the same time.

What has been your biggest obstacle in life that you overcame or that you intend to overcome? I struggle with feelings of unworthiness, of being selfish and small-minded. Each time I hear myself gossip, or respond from racial or sexual bias, or even am unnecessarily short with someone, it pains me. That’s not the man I wish to be.

Are you currently in a relationship? Are you more comfortable with someone or by yourself? I’m casually seeing someone. I’m also quite fine being with myself. If a man can add something new of value to the equation, bring it on. But I don’t need someone around just to have a warm body present.

What is your worst date story? There’s not enough space here to detail all the miserable first dates I’ve been on. Now I just have sex first (in order to skip the first date ridiculousness) and proceed directly to date #2. Kidding. (Not kidding.)

What is your biggest flaw? There’s likewise not enough space here to even start that list. Probably my moodiness. Or my desire to always be right. Or my flirtatiousness. Or …

What will you be doing in 2009? I have a new novel coming out this spring, If The Rains Don't Cleanse. In it, I tell the story of my parents remarkable experiences in Africa in the 1950s. They went there as schoolteachers and barely got out amid the torture, rape and burnings that marked the 1960 Congo independence. I expect to do some more fitness modeling this year. I want to work with a few photographers whose vision I admire but whom I’ve not had a chance to shoot with yet. I will continue to add my voice and efforts to getting Prop 8 in California reversed and to moving our nation toward a Federal marriage policy that includes all people including LGBT Americans.

What do you hate? Blind bigotry. Religious intolerance. Homophobia. Talking heads on TV who, lacking good ideas, resort to name-calling (like cum laude Cornell graduate Ann Coulter on CNN recently calling Scott McClennan a “retard” because she doesn’t like what he wrote in his book.)

What do you love? Patience and unconditional acceptance.

What’s your favorite curse word? Motherfuck. Just plain “fuck” is so great it’s hard to improve, but motherfuck has a certain flair to it.

What’s your favorite food? Vanilla ice cream with peanut butter on top. (Melt the peanut butter slightly in the microwave first and it re-congeals after you drizzle it on the cold ice cream.)

Any final thoughts? Always do your best. And if you fall short today, don’t beat yourself up too badly--tomorrow is the start of a new ‘always’.

Major Man : Anthony Wayne

Commanding an audience is no easy feat. And it can become much more difficult to accomplish when you're expected to sing, act, and dance flawlessly all at the same time. Yet night after night Major Man Anthony Wayne does just that through his performance as Richie in the touring company of Broadway's classic A Chorus Line.

Seemingly with ease, his years of experience and training come together to entertain audiences around the country in this classic story of seventeen aspiring dancers that are put to the test for a chance in the spotlight. But Mr. Anthony doesn't wish to stop there. He has his sights set on becoming the kind of triple threat that will make his name a familiar part of every household. Learn more about his many endeavors in the entertainment industry by checking out his website AWayne.com and get to know the man himself up close and personal right here on Essentially Major.

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Name: Anthony Wayne

Age: 27

Occupation: Richie in the First Broadway Revival National Tour of “A Chorus Line”

Background: Born in Richmond, Virginia and Raised in Norfolk, Virginia, I started dancing /singing by being placed into a Children’s Theatre Group called CenterStage, Inc.. From that point, I found out that I really enjoyed being on stage. It seemed to make me happy, so I did my continued while making it through Elementary and Middle School. In High School, I was chosen to be part of a Performing Arts High School in Norfolk called The Governor’s School for the Arts and went there while being in my regular High School at the same time. Here was when I began to fall in love with the craft. Before I graduated, I saw “Fosse” on Broadway the day after it opened and said to myself that this is something I want to do for the rest of my life. After graduating both schools, I worked at Busch Gardens Williamsburg for a couple of summers while I was at college at Shenandoah University. During this time, I took a summer to train at The Ailey School off W. 61st in NYC and had the life changing experience of meeting some of my closets friends while learning some amazing techniques from the master teachers themselves. After graduating with my B.F.A. in Music Theatre from the Conservatory School, I was chosen to perform the Role of Tyrone in the National Tour of “Fame-The Musical”. After the tour traveled me across America and South Korea, I went on to tour with “Smokey Joe’s Café” and “The Will Rogers Follies Starring Larry Gatlin”. Eventually, I moved to New York and received my Equity Card at the Alabama Shakespeare Festival doing “Disney’s Beauty and the Beast” and then worked at Maine State Music Theatre (“Aida”) and “SWING!” at Theatre Under the Stars in Houston. After those regional theatre shows, I went back on tour as part of the Original Cast of the First National Broadway Tour of “The Color Purple” February 2007. In March of 2008, I departed from the company to star as Richie in what I’m currently doing which is “A Chorus Line”. It’s been such a joy to share this story of Love, Joy and Sacrifice with the World.

Do you have a favorite Designer? Kenneth Cole, Georgio Armani, and Coach.

What is your “go-to” item the one thing you cannot live without? Most recently it hasn’t been a thing. It’s been an act. I’ve been praying much more. It’s keeping me grounded as my career begins to blossom.

Who is your biggest influence in life? I know it might sound typical, but I have to say my mother. She’s said things to me that I’ll always remember and tend to keep with me; things that keep my humble and grounded as well. No matter what happens, whenever I go home, I’m just still little Anthony that taps and sings.

What has been your biggest obstacle in life that you've overcome? I’ve dealt with people and situations that have said, “No, you can’t…”, “No, you won’t…”, and through it all, I’ve been able to realize that there’s so much to do in life that you can’t allow anyone to steal your joy. Hold on to it, always and know that life is for the living, so get yours!

Are you currently in a relationship? No, not in a relationship as of now, but taking applications. (smile)

What do you look for in somebody? Drive, ambition, strength, happiness in Self and what there is to come, good stimulating conversation, and someone who will stimulate my mind as well as my body.

What is your worst date story? I dated this one guy and found him totally attractive, however, he was texting on his phone the entire time. I got the point where I felt like he needed to be with whomever he was texting.

What is your biggest flaw? Letting go of control in certain situations. I’ve def been working on it. Everyone does things different and the truth about it is no one is going to do what you do like you, so don’t expect them to. It’s all good.

What will you be doing in 2009? I’m in the process of working on a book, developing a musical, getting into Commercial/Print work and will take the time to learn how to become a much better and strong actor. Eventually, I’m expecting to have conquered Broadway, Movies, T.V. and so much more. Anything’s possible.

What do you hate? That’s such a strong word. Negativity. I’m such an optimistic person that someone with a negative attitude energy will shut me off quickly.

What do you love? People who overcome obstacles in the face of adversity. I admire that strength so much.

What’s your favorite curse word? Well, it used to be “shit”, but I sing that in my show every night, so that’s gotten a little old. I really LOVE the word, “BITCH”. It seems to just put the right period on everything. (LoL)

What makes you a major man? I believe that as I continuously grow to learn about myself, becoming a Major Man in this day in age is embodying the strength to what you love and passionate about in every way with out any regrets and encouraging people who are inspired by you. That’s my goal; to be that person that young people look up to and say, “Wow, Anthony Wayne is doing it…so can I, no matter what”.

Major Man : Bry'Nt

Anyone that still believes hip hop can only come in one casing has clearly been listening with their ears and minds closed for the past twenty years. After all, hip hop’s most essential quality is its universality. Hip hop is love, its pain, and it’s the story of a life set to music and words, all wrapped up in a rhythm that everyone can bob their head to.

Major Man of the week Bry’Nt is no exception to this legacy. Both lyrically vibrant and melodic, his music takes you on a journey; a day in the life - if you will - of gay rapper that’s determined to transcend all the obstacles the industry has in his way. On tracks like Transformers and Not Home he puts together that familiar New York street sound with his own unique yet tailor made for story telling flow he'll soon be famous for. Check them out now on his MySpace page and get to know the man himself up close and personal right here on Essentially Major.

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Name: Just Bry'Nt!

Age: I am 23 years young.

Occupation: I am an up-and-coming rap artist and full-time college student.

Background: I was born in Hartford, CT. (The Heartless City!) to two African American parents.

How would you describe your personal style? I like to walk the line of trendy, eclectic, and urban.

Do you have a favorite Designer? If so, what is a must have? My favorite designer at the moment is Marc Newson for G-Star. But, a must have clothing item for me is white t-shirts.

What is your “go-to” item? I can't live without my IPOD!

Who/What is your biggest influence in life? My biggest influence in life is mom dukes of course! I learned most of what I need to survive in life from her.

What has been your biggest obstacle in life that you overcame or that you intend to overcome? My biggest obstacle in life has been dealing with the adversity that comes with being an openly gay rap artist. Definitely working hard to overcome that.

Are you currently in a relationship? I am currently dating someone. I find comfort whether I am by myself or whether I am just with someone that makes me feel comfortable, if that makes sense. *LOL*

What is your biggest turn-off? My biggest turn-off is someone who is self-absorbed.

What is your biggest turn-on? My biggest turn-on is someone with a beautiful smile.

What is your worst date story? Luckily, I don't have one.

What is your biggest flaw? My biggest flaw is my tendency to procrastinate.

What will you be doing in 2009 i.e., projects, goals, etc.? My second mix tape, "Porn Star II: The Director's Cut" will be released this Spring then I will begin a Pride tour beginning this Spring as well.

What do you hate? I hate not getting enough sleep!

What do you love? Boys, food, sleep, the color white, dogs, candy, beaches, amusement parks, music, summer days, we could be here forever on this question.

What’s your favorite curse word? Fuck!

What’s your favorite food? My favorite food is Japanese food, particularly spicy tuna rolls.

What makes you a major man? I am a Major Man because what I've done in rap music is seen as very transgressive. I've given a voice to the gay black man in a clever way and have become a more realistic figure for us as well.

Any final thoughts? Check out the Myspace page to download my first mix tape "Porn Star" for free and hear songs off of my forthcoming mixtape "Porn Star II: The Director's Cut". Also My song "Porn Star (Tramont's Remix)" can be heard on the soundtrack of the adult film BLAK (Brothas Live And Kinky) produced by Forbidden Funk Media. You can find me as a model in Francois Rousseau's nude photography book "Atelier". I am also in Spin Magazine's March 2009 issue in an article entitled "Straight Outta The Closet" and will be in Bleu Magazine's March/April Issue. You will be able to see me perform at various Pride events up and down the east coast and mid-west this Spring and Summer.

Major Man : Emmanuel Balogun

Some people are thrust into the spotlight. They have a talent and someone else decides to put them on display for all the world to see. A Major Man, however, is born in the spotlight. Its inherent and follows him every where he goes. His entire life is spent finding the right stage and the right crowd to put the full breadth of his talents on display.

Meet Emmanuel Balogun, a 19 year old London showstopper that's finding his way in the world and taking the spotlight with him. Stylish, stunning, and sophisticated; whether or not he ends up on the runways of Milan or writing for British Vogue is irrelevant. He's on the verge of greatness either way it goes. Get to know him while the getting is good right here and now on Essentially Major.

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Name: Emmanuel Balogun

Age: 19

Occupation: Student/Model/ Fashion Journalist

Background: I’m from London – I Study at Goldsmiths, University of London. (BA ANTHROPOLOGY)

How would you describe your personal style? Very electric, I dress differently everyday...I just do looks.

Do you have a favorite Designer? Either Jil Sander or Raf Simons… my Raf Simons must have has to be a pair of vintage Raf Simons boots, I have searched for Raf Boots for too long.

What is your “go-to”? My biker jacket or afro comb.. my hair relies on that shit for bounce.

Who is your biggest influence in life? My mother

What has been your biggest obstacle in life that you overcame or that you intend to overcome? (Defining my) masculinity and my sexuality

Are you currently in a relationship? I have just come out of a relationship. I am now single.

What is your worst date story? Hmm – my worst date story would have to be, smoking and drinking too much on a first date…telling my date I was going to the toilet only for him to find me conked out lying down in the corner of a bar an hour later.

What is your biggest flaw? Hmm my big nipples.

What will you be doing in 2009? Getting to know a few more people in the industry, building a bigger name for myself as a journalist and travel more.

What do you hate? Exclamation marks!!!!

What do you love? Looking shit hot.

What’s your favorite curse word? Too many to narrow it down to just one.

What’s your favorite food? I am really into fish right now…Any kind of Salmon dish.

What makes you a major man? Mmmhmm I personally don’t think of myself as major yet, but I will be. I have so much more to accomplish before I deserve praise. So I would say that, the fact that I am not satisfied with being deemed the title as major for the reason that I have a lot more major things to accomplish, is what makes me one.

Major Man : Eddie Woodard

Dressing well is a skill, but being the mind behind the design is what’s truly major.

Meet Major Man of the week Eddie Woodward. Born and raised in Atlanta with a swag to match, he’s hell bent on putting the south on everyone’s fashion forward radar. His clothing line ‘geul.den bear kouture is a lot like the man himself; classically refined yet edgy and memorable all at the same time. Be on the look out this year for the launch of geuldenbearkouture.com and in the meantime, get to know the man with the magic right here on Essentially Major.

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Name: “E”, “E Beezlee”, “Bishop” Eddie Woodard

Age: 30

Occupation: CEO/ Designer of ‘geul.den bear kouture

Background: Associate Degree in Computer Animation - Art Institute of Atlanta, Hometown Atlanta, GA (Adamsville)

How would you describe your personal style? I can’t…It’s whatever I have with me…jeans, tee, cardigan, or even a 2-button Ralph Lauren Purple Label suit. I guess I style for any occasion…something like a 4 door Benz coupe…lol

Do you have a favorite Designer? I don’t have just one…but some of my favorite designers are Ralph Lauren/classic. Its hard to go wrong with Ralph. I also like Gucci, Yves Saint Laurent, Tom Ford, and Zac Posen.

What is your “go-to” item? A pair of shades; rather it’s the black & gold Alpina or the black & gold 607 Cazal / the Retro RUN DMC joints.

Who is your biggest influence in life? I will have to say my mom and family. In their eyes, I can achieve anything.

What has been your biggest obstacle in life that you overcame or that you intend to overcome? Getting Atlanta to be noticed as a fashion city. When thinking of fashion, you immediately think of Paris, Milan, New York…you don’t think of Atlanta.

Are you currently in a relationship? Yes…almost 8 years. If you are an asset, then with someone. But if you are a liability, then by myself.

What do you look for in somebody? One of the characteristics I look for in a female is style. She also must be confident, independent and ambitious. I like females that can dress for any occasion and ask for my input only because she values my opinion, but knows in her mind that she is on point.

What is your biggest turn-off? Those females that feel its automatic for the man to pay for everything instead getting her own and take care of self.

What is your biggest turn-on? A female that takes care of herself physical and mentally.

What is your biggest flaw? I think I may be a borderline perfectionist. It’s a gift and a curse. Sometimes I have plans to go out but may not make it if I don’t feel like I’m well together. You only have one time to make a first impression.

What will you be doing in 2009 i.e., projects, goals, etc.? Besides working on more product placements and releasing ‘geul.den bear kouture new collection. Launching of geuldenbearkouture.com. Hopefully I’m able to collaborate with Joe Moss of Good Life Clothing Company and host the first Geul.den Life weekend.

What do you hate? I hate meetings!!! If you know your job…get it done.

What do you love? A peace of mind and fashion gives me that.

What’s your favorite curse word? I don’t have one…I like them all…lol

What’s your favorite food? I’m a big Sushi eater but will settle for a Peanut Butter & Jelly sandwich on any day.

What makes you a major man? I’ll let you be the judge.

Any final thoughts? I want to to thank some important people. First, God of coarse. He gave me the gift make ‘geul.den bear kouture possible. Now for the supporting cast…my mom, brother, dad, Reba/my first customer, Ebonie/Geul.den Carter ENT, Cal/Lilboy ENT, Joeleo/Good Life Clothing Company, celebrity stylist Reno V./Status, Xavier/ X Mark the Spot ENT, The WorldWide Mayor “Darryl”/They Might Be Taping, YO/UNI, Ken/Psenforcement, Sharnette, Aiesha, Phil, RIP “Kyle Jennings” and “Baby”.

Two Times MAJoR

"The commercialization of romance these days is inescapable. You can’t even Google a good take out Chinese restaurant or an assisted living facility for single twentysomethings without being bombarded by fluttery Anne Geddes cupid dolls and heart-shaped symbols replacing all the O’s in the English language."

Excerpt from the new Essentially Major Column "Picturing Perfect"

Major Man alumnus Lamar Ariel and myself tag team the latest issue of David Atlanta Magazine. It's all about love; for better and for worse. Pick up your copy on local Atlanta newstands now or read it online today by clicking here.

Major Man : RAHBI

While all men of style may share similar interests from time to time, a truly major man is nothing if not in love with his individuality. It's what makes him memorable, dynamic, and never mistakable as a just another fad or trend. He is what trends are made of; a new and fresh interpretation of life that inspires others to follow suit.

Meet Major Man of the week RAHBI. So uniquely himself that just one name will do. An artist in every since of the word, RAHBI takes audiences on a musical journey uncategorizable by any that have come before him. Just as easy as he reaches back to modernized old school soul on hits like Another Chance, he can turn around and infuse a slow jam like Take You 2 A Dream with a melodic jazz inspired feel. Both tracks are included on his album Raw Live, curently available on itunes. But you can get to know the man himself right here and now only on Essentially Major.

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Name: RAHBI

Occupation: Entertainer

Background: Originally from Atlanta, signed to LaFace Records @ 14yrs old, Georgia State University Alumnus, deemed "The Next Big Thing" by Erykah Badu, love Child of Prince & Grace Jones.

How would you describe your personal style? A STATEMENT!!

Do you have a favorite Designer? No. I wear it all from No Name to Gucci. If it's that dopeness, I'll rock it.

What is your "go-to" item the one thing you cannot live without? My Mac Computer. It covers all my needs. Business & Pleasure.

Who/What is your biggest influence in life? All risk takers and those unafraid to be themselves are my constant influences in life. Prince,Rick James, Grace Jones, Michael Jackson, Madonna, David Bowie, Jesus!

What has been your biggest obstacle in life that you overcame or that you intend to overcome? There are no obstacles. Either you do it, or you don't. I only have goals that I work hard to accomplish everyday.Grammys, Movies, My Star on The Hollywood Walk of Fame!!

Are you currently in a relationship? No

What do you look for in somebody? Striking Beauty & Sex Appeal

What is your biggest turn-off? A Nasty Attitude What is your biggest turn-on? Nice Teeth:-)

What is your worst date story? My mom decided to escort me to the Sweet Heart Ball in the 8th grade. Every time I tried to grind on my date she quickly stepped in-between us. She knew I was a freak at an early age.

What is your biggest flaw? I'm a perfectionist, but I like it.

What will you be doing in 2009? I'm taking time to complete my first full length studio project.

What do you hate? Liars

What do you love? Music

What's your favorite curse word? All of em! And if you say them softly, they're really sexy.

What's your favorite food? Grilled Salmon

What makes you a major man? The key characteristic of being a major man is digging who you are and giving a Fu*k about what anyone else thinks. Why, because you're dope and were created perfect by the original artist. With that being said, I'm the shit! Nothing forced here. I’m just....MAJOR!

Any final thoughts? Continue to spread the word! I'm nothing without the support of my beautiful people. www.myspace.com/RAHBI and music available on iTunes or www.cdbaby.com/RAHBIMUSIC.

Major Man : Shaun Ross

As liberal and limitless as the American fashion industry claims to be, it often publicly struggles with living up to its reputation in matters of diversity. While in recent years we've started to see that tide slowly turn towards being more inclusive, it still takes a Major Man to be audacious enough to push the limits of beauty even further than anyone could have ever anticipated.

Major Man of the week Shaun Ross is no stranger when it comes to standing out. And instead of letting his uniqueness keep him from pursuing his love of fashion and modeling, he's using it to push him to the forefront of the industry; both on and off the runway. So before he's swept off into the fashion week frenzy, get to know him up close and personal right here on Essentially Major.

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Name: Shaun Ross

Age: 17

Occupation: Model

How would you describe your personal style? My style is original but what makes it my style is that I’m really an old soul at heart. I love to do everything. My personality is very chill and laid back. I love lounge music; anything that can set the mood. At the same time I am also very modern and afrocentric.

Do you have a favorite Designer? Has to be either Raf Simons or Givenchy.

What is your "go-to" item the one thing you cannot live without? A bag to carry all my things in and sunglasses.

Who/What is your biggest influence in life? My mom, because she teaches me to go for your dreams and stick with it no matter what people tell you.

What has been your biggest obstacle in life that you overcame? Accepting the fact that I am an Albino man.

What is your biggest flaw? Eating too much food and not gaining enough weight

What will you be doing in 2009 i.e., projects, goals, etc.? I am working on a couple of magazine covers and runway shows, also heading overseas.

What do you hate? Violence, ignorance, and racism

What do you love? I love the world and all it has to offer

What's your favorite curse word? Shade

What's your favorite food? Everything!

What makes you a Major Man? I am a Major Man because I go through lots of different obstacles everyday that the average person does not have to face. If I wasn’t major, I wouldn’t be able to take ownership of the title "First Albino Male Model".

Major Man : Lamar Ariel

Authenticity is always an essential character trait of all things major. On the surface it can seem easier to hide who you are behind a veil of what everyone else wants you be. It’s much harder - yet far more fulfilling - to be exactly who you are each and everyday, regardless of the criticism or acclaim you might be met with.

Author Lamar Ariel is major for so many reasons; talented, creative, passionate, and most importantly unafraid to be vulnerable and authentic to the world through his writing. His book, Ready To Male, is a collection of letters that explore the black gay male identity in a way that has never been done before. Pick up your copy immediately (if you haven’t already) and get to know the author himself right here on Essentially Major.

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Name: Lamar Ariel

Age: Too-Damn-Close-To-Thirty

Occupation: Full-Time Observational Self-Therapist and Part-Time Writer

Background: Born and raised on the South Side of Chicago.

How would you describe your personal style? Trend-less and simple yet always interesting.

What is your "go-to" item the one thing you cannot live without: Kobu candles, my whirlpool tub, and a good sweaty sleep.

What has been your biggest obstacle in life that you overcame or that you intend to overcome? Learning to understand before trying to be understood.

Are you currently in a relationship? Are you more comfortable with someone or by yourself? Yes I am in a relationship. I prefer to spend equal parts with myself and a super-special snuggle bear.

What is your worst date story? I went to the Mandarin Oriental in Manhattan for after dinner drinks with a very sexy man from Texas. As things apparently were going too well for a first date, he decided to force a conversation about religion. When we didn't agree on my terminology for the bible—"wonderful collection of fiction"—he became offended and excused himself to the bathroom and never returned. He was a good Christian though, he "text" me from the cab on his way home. The text said, "Can’t date an atheist!" I laughed, ordered another drink, and fell into a sentimental mood about dating in NYC.

What is your biggest flaw? I am impatient.

What will you be doing in 2009 i.e., projects, goals, etc.? Wrapping up Part 2 of Ready to Male, visiting Paris and South Africa, and figuring out the next person I'd like to become.

What do you hate? Liars, and fear-mongers.

What do you love? Truth and messengers of hope.

What's your favorite curse word? Hmm. It's a tie between bitch and fuck. I think I will coin, fubbitch in 2009.

What's your favorite food? Crawfish.

What makes you a major man? I write letters that speak to the universal emotions and experiences within the GLBT community. I believe that men, especially those who love, live, and look like me should be better prepared and skilled at sharing their emotions. My letters, specifically those included in my book, Ready to Male, are my vulnerable attempt to practice what I preach. I hope they inspire others to write their own letters. Not so much to be understood but to understand themselves.

Any final thoughts? I'm always looking for Major Friends, visit my website: www.readytomale.com or shoot me a message on Facebook or Myspace. And in person, I certainly don't run away from hugs.

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Major Man : Chapman

Our little fashionable family isn't so little anymore. Meet the latest addition to the Essentially Major crew, Sports & Fitness Editor and Major Man of the week, Chapman.

A true Major Man, after all, isn't only fashion forward. He's well informed on all matters and is especially attentive to how he takes care of his body. As a certified personal trainer for five years, Chapman has seen it all and is well equipped to tackle whatever fitness obstacle you're attempting to overcome. We sat down with the man of the week to run him through the Major Man litmus test and I think you'll all agree he passed with flying colors.

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Name: Chapman

Age: 33

Occupation: Personal Trainer

Background (education, hometown, and family relations, whatever you want to say): Born and raised in Washington, D.C….by way of Jamaica.

How would you describe your personal style? I don’t really follow trends or what’s in….I wear what I like and what makes me feel comfortable.

What is your “go-to” item the one thing you cannot live without? Junk food (donuts, honey buns, and ice cream….shhh…don’t tell my clients)

Who/What is your biggest influence in life? My mom. Raising 6 kids alone….6 bad ass kids. I couldn’t have done it.

What has been your biggest obstacle in life that you overcame or that you intend to overcome? I’m an extreme introvert, so with that comes extreme shyness. Overcoming that shyness was huge for me.

What is your biggest turn-on? Someone who can cook their ASS off.

What is your worst date story? Call me. We’ll talk.

What is your biggest flaw? I’m hard on myself. Like REAL hard. EXTRA hard.

What will you be doing in 2009 i.e., projects, goals, etc.? Taking my overall fitness to the next level. Buying a house. Oh, and Essentially MAJOR.

What do you hate? Losing (It’s not how you play. It’s how you WIN!)

What do you love? Music

What’s your favorite curse word? All of em. I’m fluent.

What’s your favorite food? Pizza

What makes you a major man? I’m a major man because I’m a man for all occasions. I’m comfortable in any setting: from formal to casual; from happy hour to Saturday afternoon brunch; from church to a lazy afternoon….I got you. That’s major shit right there.

Any final thoughts? What matters most is how you see YOURSELF!

Major Man : Chavis Aaron

Some men are attractive, some are even beautiful. Then there are those so stunning that they could stop a freight train dead in its tracks. Meet the latter; Major Man of the week Mr. Chavis Aaron. With his dangerous combination of looks, charm, and intellect I'm sure this is one face you'll be seeing everywhere very soon. In the meantime, get to know him up close and personal right here on Essentially Major as we sat down with the man of the week for a little Q&A.

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Name:
Chavis Aaron

Age: 21
Occupation: Model, actor

Background:
I am from Indianapolis, Indiana and also half Atlanta, GA. I guess I will say my background since I'm always asked: “What are you?” LOL But its Black, Puerto Rican, and Cherokee. But for clients its what ever you need me to be!

How would you describe your personal style?
My personal style is hard to describe. It’s like a combo between fitted, fresh, fly, funky and fashionable the 5 F’s!

Do you have a favorite Designer? If so, what is a must have?
I actually have two favorite designers; Dolce & Gabbana and Diesel. If I had mad money I would have everything in the diesel collection!

What is your “go-to” item; the one thing you cannot live without?
Let's see, one thing I cant live with out; Hard question! I can’t live without my phone, I would go so f**cking crazy with out it!

Who/What is your biggest influence in life?
My biggest influence would have to be Will Lemay. He opened the doors in my field for a look like mine. Aside from him it would be all the other models of color before me.

Are you currently in a relationship? Are you more comfortable with someone or by yourself?
I am currently in a relationship and being with some one is great for that support to help push me to my goals.

What do you look for in somebody? What is your biggest turn-off? What is your biggest turn-on?
I look for personality and goal oriented people. Biggest turn on: smile and someone short in height. Turn off: lying and bad breath.

What is your worst date story?
I really don’t have a bad date story. I try to make the best out of the situation even if I make it a friend situation instead of a date.

What do you hate?
I hate failure and being late.

What do you love?
I love progress and success.

What’s your favorite curse word?
Fuck

What’s your favorite food?
My favorite food is probably Chicken Alfredo.

What makes you a Major Man?
I think I'm a Major Man because I like to think that I dress pretty fly most of time and I am very driven. My goal is to help break down the barriers for male models of diverse ethnic backgrounds. I know that my passion for modeling surpasses most; I see it as an art form not just a job! It's acting without speaking. I LOVE IT!

Any final thoughts?
Thanks for the opportunity for this interview. To check out some of my work visit at my website www.myspace.com/aaronchavis

Check out more Chavis on YouTube right here

Major Man : Laurence Laurent

Meet the newest addition to the Essentially Major family, our Lifestyle Editor, Laurence Laurent. This global trendsetter has a whole lot of tricks up his made to measure sleeves and when we met late last year I knew immediately he had to be a part of this movement.

Also new today is the introduction of our Major Man segment. Each week we'll introduce you to a new individual that embodies all the characteristics of the Major brand; intellectual, passionate, forward thinking, creative, inspirational, individual style, and the all important confidence! How fitting that Laurence be the first as he has all of those character traits and then some.

We sat down with the man himself for a little intimate Q&A. Watch, listen, and learn ...

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Name:
Laurence Laurent

Age:
28 (12/23/1980)

Occupation:
Lifestyle Specialist

Background:
Miami International University of Art & Design: B.A., Fashion Merchandising
Been around the world more than once.

How would you describe your personal style?
Modern American Dandy: I’m faithful to the classics, waistcoats, crisp shirts, and tailored trousers. Clean cut, with a small dose of trend with accessories. I'm always dressed for a social brunch and or Cocktails.

Do you have a favorite Designer? If so, what is a must have?
Levi’s/ 501 Jeans

What is your “go-to” item the one thing you cannot live without?
White linen handkerchiefs

Who/What is your biggest influence in life?
Music

What has been your biggest obstacle in life that you overcame or that you intend to overcome?
Overcoming the Fear of failure.

Are you currently in a relationship? Are you more comfortable with someone or by yourself?
Bachelor …I’m comfortable either or

What do you look for in somebody? What is your biggest turn-off? What is your biggest turn-on?
Confidence/Arrogance/Presence

What is your worst date story?
It involved a very arrogant D-list reality show celebrity.

What is your biggest flaw?
I’m a Workaholic.

What will you be doing in 2009 i.e., projects, goals, etc.?
Essentially Major, Obvious Magazine, Men’s Accessories line Autumn/Winter 2009, Stopping to smelling some roses along the way.

What do you hate?
Promises

What do you love?
Laughter

What’s your favorite curse word?
I don’t curse.

What’s your favorite food?
Deep dish Seafood Pizza

What makes you a major man?
I’m a major man because I’m the quintessential gentleman. I’m cultured, educated and well spoken. My conduct proceeds from good will and a sense of self worth and my self-control is disciplined. I’ve never made a man conscious of his poverty, or his inferiority or deformity. I don’t flatter wealth, or cringe before power, or boast of my own possessions or achievements; I speak with frankness but always with sincerity and sympathy; and I adapt well in any company and or environment. I am very major.

Any final thoughts?
"Style is not your outward appearance, style is a comfortable Elegant mode of existence, a quality of imagination and individuality expressed in one's actions and taste." - Laurence Laurent